Practice emotional resilience
Taking steps to look after your wellbeing can help you deal with pressure and reduce the impact that stress has on your life. This is sometimes called developing emotional resilience, or the ability to adapt and bounce back when something difficult happens in your life.
Try these emotional resilience practices:
- Practice being straightforward and assertive in communicating with others. If people are making unreasonable or unrealistic demands on you, be prepared to tell them how you feel and say no. By honoring yourself, you will help reduce your feelings of stress.
- Use relaxation techniques. Give yourself a brain rest and do something that makes you feel wonderful, like a taking a bath, praying, writing in a gratitude journal, doing a guided meditation, listening to music or doing deep breathing exercises. Honor yourself by setting this time aside.
- Develop your interests and hobbies. Find an activity that's completely different from the things causing you stress. This is a great way to get away from everyday pressures. Some ideas include coloring, doing a craft, completing a puzzle, cooking new recipes or starting a virtual book club.
- Journaling (writing your thoughts) is a healthy practice for your mind and spirit. It can also be used as a tool for stress management to reset or de-stress your emotions. Writing down thoughts, dreams, feelings and ideas is a healthy and beneficial practice for overall wellness. Writing also helps you get to the heart of the matter by getting whatever you’re dealing with off your mind and onto paper.
Maintain your physical health
Taking steps to look after your physical health can help you manage stress and lessen the impact on your overall mental health.
- A good night’s sleep will increase your ability to think and deal with difficult situations that may occur during the day. It will also reduce stress and sleep disorders. Try these ideas to help you calm your mind and fall asleep:
- Listen to a guided meditation or practice breathing exercises like diaphragmatic breathing and breath counting.
- Being physically active can reduce depression and stress levels that will prevent some of their damaging effects on the body. Try:
- Going for a walk or doing chair squats, wall push-ups, lunges, yoga poses, calf raises, crunches, planks, and stretches.
- Healthy eating will help keep your immune system strong. Try to incorporate these foods and lots of water into your daily diet:
- Fruits, vegetables, lean protein, healthy grains and 64 ounces of water or more each day. If you’re eating more canned food right now, look for low-sodium options. See more tips on healthy eating.
Give yourself a break
Being kinder to yourself may reduce the pressure you feel in different situations, which will also help reduce your stress.
- Reward yourself for achievements, even for small things like finishing a piece of work or making a decision. Read a book, treat yourself to food you enjoy, or simply tell yourself “well done.”
- Get a change of scenery. Go for a drive, take a walk, or meet a friend outside or over video.
- Solve conflict, if you can. This can sometimes be very difficult when speaking to a manager, colleague or family member, but by talking with them, you can find ways to move forward.
- Forgive yourself and others. This will help release stress, and you will feel free from the pressure you have been carrying around.
Redirect negative thoughts
Lastly, remember that positive thinking has power. Medical and scientific research suggests that the things you can touch, taste and measure frequently take a backseat to what we perceive or believe to be real. In other words, our personal abilities and potential for wellbeing are shaped by the negative or positive ways we think.
Honor yourself with positive self-talk. Making positive self-statements can help you think more rationally and calmly. Tell yourself “I can handle this. Tough times don’t last. I know what I really want for myself.”
If you, or someone you care about, is feeling overwhelmed with emotions like sadness, depression or anxiety, or feel like you want to harm yourself or others, the CDC recommends:
- Calling 9-1-1 in case of an emergency
- Contacting the Disaster Distress Helpline
- Contacting the National Domestic Violence Hotline